fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: i knew it was a mistake reading the letters pages…

eeeeurgh. i mean it’s not like dixon didn’t invite that attitude, because dixon is a douche, but YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE DOUCHES TOO

oh no it… was… dixon who said that

the person who wrote it was just curious about how steph was gonna handle the situation

theres not a dubbed version of ccs, only cardcaptors and you dont want that trust me

i used to watch it when i was little??? and it was the same episodes as I’m watching now

no that’s good the dub completely butchers it, it’s one of the bad ones.

but now I can’t internet and watch it ):

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: ugh i’m so frustrated i want to design a costume…

Maybe fiddle with one of those superhero dollmakers? It won’t give you EXACTLY what you want but it can be a good start.

usually i would but theres really specific things i wanna do and a dollmaker won’t help with that ):

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post:…

i really want to try binding but i don’t know how well it’d work because mine like - hurt easily? when you put pressure on them

i’m sorry ): I’m kind of like that too. plus back + breathing problems just make it seem like binding would be a lot more trouble than it’s worth.

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: TW:…

I did find them eventually! But by then I was attached to the shirt and it looked androgynous so I stuck with it. Also it looked good with my tie. (I’m lucky though in that two layers are enough to hide them!)

that’s good! i didnt even realize there were ties, oh well.

yay! I have. never tried. i think I’d have to wear pretty loose clothes and few layers to hide my boobs even if I was binding.

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: TW: Dysphoria (I think?)

uh gosh me too (though i also found an outfit i liked that doesn’t show the boobs) (thank fuck it’s winter and i can start wearing double layers)

if you go to the last pages of the “shirts” or whatever it is you can find flat chested ones. or am i misreading this and thats what you meant by finding on you liked (?)

aah yeah that would suck IRL too. i’m sorry ):

TW: Spidery talk and a little ableism I think
fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: eaudedaddyissues replied to your post:…
/offers hugs I feel you! Mine isn’t so bad now, but I still can’t…touch them to put them out of the house so mostly I just run away. I am trying to like - train myself out of it but um it’s not pleasant.

I can’t even like… use a containter to get them and put them outside because I’m convinced they’re going to magically be able to get out of the container and then eat me.

You shouldn’t have to train yourself out of it. My dad is really awful to me about my arachnaphobia (in that he’ll catch spiders and threaten to throw them at me, or tell me horrible things like that they are laying eggs in my eyeballs while I sleep so um) yeah I don’t think people should be mocked/shamed for phobias or forced to get over them if they’re not hurting anyone.

fuckyeahbatgirls asked: Jason/Kon!

aaaah oh man I could talk about these two FOREVER. You’re so good to me, Sage.

I just. I have a lot of feelings about both of them because they’re precious babies who I want to cuddle. But like… I think Jason really needs someone in his life who DIDN’T know him back when he was Robin because they’d have all these expectations about how he should act/be and I really don’t think he’s capable of fulfilling any of that. I’m not saying that he’s a completely different person now, because he’s still Jason, it’s just that he’s been through so much that he can’t really go back. And sometimes I think that’s what the rest of the Bat family would expect of him, if he was to try to be “good” again. And all Kon knows about Jason is what he’s heard from Tim/the rest of the superhero community (which… I think is interesting because initially he would have heard good things whenever Tim could be coaxed to talk about the past Robins, but more recently his view of Jason is “the guy that tried to kill Tim”)

Obviously there’s a lot of conflict there, if you have them meet AFTER Jason attacked Tim in Titans Tower - and BftC, depending if you count that as canon. Because Kon is nothing if not loyal, and he’s going to hold a lot of anger towards someone who hurt his friend, but I also think he’s capable of understanding both sides of the story. Especially if Jason… not necessarily apologizes, but explains why he was so hurt/angry and why he attacked Tim.

Plus the fact that Jason has A LOT of issues that I think Kon could help with. Especially wrt to being so closed off emotionally and physically because Kon is the opposite of that (which is why I think Tim likes being around him, because Tim is aware that he needs to learn to open up more) and I think Kon could push in ways that would help Jason stop being so distrustful/scared of people. Sometimes he’d probably go too far and they’d fight more but in the end I think Kon’s grown up enough that he can understand boundaries while still pushing for the result he wants. And Kon is a genuinely good person and it would be helpful for Jason to have someone around who IS good, and who doesn’t expect anything of him because it shows him that it’s okay to trust someone and care about them and let them care about him.

Compatibility-wise I read them both as queer and I think they both have the capability to be pretty romantic (Kon definitely, and Jason is really passionate and he DOES care about people he’s just… not given much chance to show it because his family sucks). Even if they weren’t in a relationship, they’d have pretty great sex because it’s.. you know… Kon and Jason. They’re also both kind of dorks, and I think they’d make each other laugh a lot and/or roll their eyes fondly at each other’s bad jokes/puns. Kon would work towards convincing Jason that he isn’t a terrible person, because Kon just… really cares about people and wants them to be happy. And Jason would make sure Kon doesn’t internalize too much of that “my genetics are evil” bullshit and just scold him whenever Kon gets self-deprecating.

There’d be issues with Jason’s killing thing, but honestly I can read Kon as the sort of person who could understand, if not endorse it. He’s seen a lot of really awful things and been close to killing (Amanda Spence, Prime) and I think he could see how badly the justice system fails in that supervillains KEEP GETTING FREE and he could empathize with Jason’s frustration. He did stop Cissie from killing someone and I’m too lazy to go find his exact reason for stopping her, but IIRC it had to do with how he knew it’d affect her and how it wasn’t the way “heroes” should go about things. Wearing the ‘S’, and the rules that come with it are important to Kon, but I don’t think he’d judge Jason too harshly for being willing to kill.

Wow this got really long and there’s still more I could say??? Basically I just think while they have a lot of issues they’d both have to work through before they could even be friends, as a pairing I feel like they’d compliment each other well and they’d be the cutest boyfriends (who have really great sex).

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: doctor who spoilers
oh my god that. almost makes me want to watch it. ;_; ALL OF MY TEARS

I don’t think they really mention it???? so idk if its worth it just for that.

My dad and brother just noticed because they’re huge geeks. The episode is p. good overall though because there’s very few female characters for moffatt to ruin.

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: sephet replied to your post Wait wait wait… wait….

OH GOSH I DON’T UNDERSTAND DISTANCE EITHER I CANNOT CONCEPTUALISE/VISUALISE IT -AT ALL-

THANK GOD I’M NOT THE ONLY ONE. People make fun of me or get annoyed that I can’t do it but IDK my brain just doesn’t work that way.

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: intrazone replied to your post: intrazone replied…
Hah, I always thinks Australia sounds very lovely but then I remember that EVERYTHING CAN KILL ME DEAD. I’d still like to visit though.

EVEN THE SUN IS TRYING TO KILL US. Pretty sure we have a ridiculously high rate of skin cancer. But you should come anyway, we’ll have a party.

intrazone replied to your post: Trauma Warning: Violence/talk of maulings
at first I was like ‘what~ our tshirts was rule’ but then I got the joke. I haven’t been awake very long yet. Also that is horrible but uh snake bites are pretty horrible too? Not exactly painless anyway. Everything is trying to kill us! Everywhere.

I can make jokes sometimes. But yeah our tshirts would actually be awesome we are skilled.

I guess but if they’re fatal they’re usually pretty quick? Otherwise I assume I’d be able to get to a hospital and survive.

eaudedaddyissues replied to your post: dandizette replied to your post: dandizette…

UGH I AM JEALOUS YOU ARE CORRECT

YOU ARE INVITED TOO. I have no idea if you live anywhere near LA tho. You’re still invited.

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: WHAT THE…

OH YEAH I KNOW THAT FEELING IT IS A STRANGE FEELING I NEVER KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH IT (…bruce/kon? …i can’t talk i’ve shipped bruce/babs)

I JUST KIND OF MADE PERPLEXED NOISES AT MY COMPUTER SCREEN AND THEN DISTRACTED MYSELF WITH EVEN WORSE FIC. (Hence the Bruce/Kon, which was… not as awful as I was expecting? It was Hawaii-era!Kon, so he was kind of all show off-y and it was “Brucie” and I quess it didn’t skeeve me out as much because there really wasn’t a power dynamic* or anything. Kon just wanted to sleep with Bruce Wayne so he went for it.)

eaudedaddyissues replied to your post: fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: WHAT THE…

nah don’t feel guilty it’s ok to find weird things/messed up things hot

I know that logically but it’s hard to divorce that from the part of my brain going “OH GOD WHY” :/

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: WHAT THE FUCK
YOU CAN ALWAYS RANT ABOUT BAD FIC TO ME AMP

IT WASNT BAD THOUGH. IT WAS JUST SUPER FUCKED UP AND REALLY HOT AND I FEEL KIND OF GUILTY FOR FINDING IT HOT AND IT WASFUCKING CONFUSING AND I CAN’T TURN CAPSLOCK OFF I’M HAVING TOO MANY FEELINGS.

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK.

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: I really, really, really want a cuddle. Today’s…
I really wish I could. /cuddles you through the internet, because you are a brave, lovely person I am proud to know

Thank you <3 You’re so sweet and I’m wibbling a little but in a good way. /cuddles

fuckyeahbatgirls replied to your post: trauma warning: heterosexism/cissexism
is it possible to hug you and high-five you at the same time

I’m not sure but I am more than happy to try.

neat-o replied to your post: trauma warning: heterosexism/cissexism
Woah. Brave!

Thanks. It was super terrifying but I just coudn’t keep hearing it, so I told him to never say it again.

rozarria replied to your post: trauma warning: heterosexism/cissexism
ffffuck sorry /hugs

/hugs