my stomach feels like shit
it’s like a combination of so many problems that i feel like it’s never gonna stop hurting
Multiculturalism for Steampunk is starting up a weekly art challenge, and it looks promising. SO EXCITED. I’ve had a bunch of ideas for non-Western steampunk outfits floating around in my head, and it’s nice actually having a weekly deadline to motivate me to finish some of them.
This is pretty subtle in its steampunkery (read: no extranneous metal bits), but I was just trying to bring in a few western/Victorian elements to traditional Indian clothing- legomuttoned sleeves, the double breasted, collared choli, and adapting the churidar into buttoned spats.
…Also a sweet hat.
-C
this outfit is rad as fuck
It’s not used much at all really.
i would’ve never heard of it if not for fanfiction i don’t think, it doesn’t get used much here in my experience.
its definitely not used as much here, like, really at all, but i did register it as a slur when i read it— but thats probably why people arent talking about that as much
no one says it in the us unless theyre an anglophile, but i grew up on british soaps and sitcoms so i seriously recoiled when i saw that. i think a lot of americans just view it as “quaint”, and not as a slur, which is… horrifying tbh
Yeah that is what I was expecting. And god Sasha that is horrifying, I never thought of people interpreting it as “quaint” because it’s… really not. I can’t actually speak for what its like in Britain, but I imagine it’s similar to here which is… it gets used by people who commit hate crimes, and it gets used as justifications for hate crimes and basically it’s awful.
re: martin freeman
I am curious if this is a cultural thing because like… for me, as soon as I saw the word “poofs” I went “FUCK HIM I HOPE HE NEVER SPEAKS AGAIN”
and yet not many people seem to be calling that out so much as the rest of what he said?*
I’m just wondering if “poofs” doesn’t get used as much in the US so there’s not as much of a connection to hate crimes? because that’s instantly the first thing I think of when I see that word. it scares me. it terrifies as much as “fag” does, if not more. because as soon as I hear that word, I assume the person speaking it is going to hurt me.
“The funny thing about the acting business is that there are more [slur redacted] in it than you can have hot dinners thrown at you, but no one is out. It’s not so bad here, but in Hollywood - Jesus Christ. Why don’t they just admit it? No one cares if they’re gay or not. I certainly don’t. In this so-called liberal industry, no one has the guts to come out because of “the box office”, but someone has to be the first in the firing line. Without the suffragettes a lot of women would have thought, ‘Why should we have the vote?’ And I think that the same argument exists today. People should stand up and be counted.”
-Martin Freeman
Here’s the thing. This quote is making its way around tumblr, and a lot of people are getting very upset about a straight man telling people in Hollywood that they have an obligation to come out. I understand why the way he phrased it might push some people’s buttons. But in my opinion, if the only thing keeping you from coming out is a fear of what will happen to your box office gross, you should come out. If you’re famous enough that people would actually find out and possibly care, you are enough of a public figure that you coming out could make a huge difference. I understand that sexuality is a private matter, but the fact of that matter is, until LGBTQ rights are solidly established, sometimes it’s hearing about one celebrity you love coming out of the closet that makes close-minded people think twice, the same way finding out a relative is gay can make them rethink some of their views. I think the point he’s trying to make is that if, in any civil rights movement, none of the people in that minority were to ‘stand up and be counted’, to make it known that, for instance, they wanted the right to vote as women, then the status quo would be the status quo eternal. People’s sex lives are a private matter, absolutely, but right now we are living in a world where your conservative uncle might vote for a Republican, anti-gay bigot like Rick Santorum because he doesn’t know that you, his nephew, is gay. So I understand what he’s saying here. Famous people in Hollywood have more pull in society than most politicians, and when they come out and live their lives as who they are, they have the opportunity to lend that image and that media attention to the issue. They have the opportunity to be a representation of how being gay changes nothing about their talent, charisma, or skill as an actor.
And let’s also be clear - I see a lot of people discussing this quote in the context of anti-gay bullying and the high rates of suicide amongst gay teenagers. That isn’t what he’s talking about here. It should go without saying that if you are in a situation where your life or your psychological well-being are in imminent danger if you come out, then obviously it’s best to wait until you are at a more stable place. He’s talking specifically about the ‘Tom Cruise’ style stars who have been rumored to be gay for years but have refused to come out of the closet presumably because they fear a loss in revenue and public attention. That is what we’re talking about here - financially stable movie stars, not poor, financially dependent kids.
Regardless, I think Martin Freeman ought to be cut some slack. I don’t think his intentions were malicious - and I don’t even necessarily disagree.
Yes this. (Bolded by me for emphasis)
Nope you should shut the fuck up.
No one is obligated to come out. For any reason. Ever.
Somewhere by tywenart
Kara’s Down Time by Ricken
Cassandra by mllebee
ugh I think today is gonna be a sad feels day
does anyone have recs for cute movies/fics/tv shows or something to distract myself?
I love the idea that mer-tails can look like the tails of other species of fish. Oh artists of Deviantart you never cease to amaze me.
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I’m fairly sure that panel is from 52. I googled because I was curious myself and I found that number.
boo. my life is hard
